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The Choice

Choose a Market Where You Can Own the Customer.

If you can't own the relationship, you can only ever rent your income.

Some markets let you build a direct, lasting relationship with the buyer - their trust, their contact, their loyalty. Others permanently keep the customer at arm's length behind a platform or a gatekeeper you'll never get past. Always choose the first kind. The ability to own the customer relationship is the single factor that decides whether you build equity or just rent income for as long as you're allowed.

Before committing to any doorway, ask plainly: can I make this customer mine, or will they always belong to someone above me? If you can own them, the market is worth your life. If you can't, you're building on someone else's land no matter how well it goes. Own the customer or pick a different floor.

The takeaway

Only commit to markets where you can own the customer relationship directly.

This is one of 48 laws from MIDDLEMAN - The 48 Laws of the Money in the Middle. Read it in full to climb the whole building, floor by floor.

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